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Hey Book Lovers! Big special for the next 2 weeks!! You can score yourself a Kindle Copy of my book for a measly $2.99 and add it to your digital, treeless library!



The Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Women is a non-fiction book and was released by Mango Publishing a few years ago but continues to surprise new readers. Available in several languages and in the Braille Lending Library of Australia, you too can peek behind the image presented in Hollywood movies and mainstream medieval history.



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Single medieval women in the form of new widows were often in a position to travel. In fact, one particular widow was told by her husband on his deathbed that as soon as he dies, she was to make all haste and not wait, and visit five shrines in holy places for the good of his soul. He not only named the places she was to go, but pre-paid her expenses for all the trips.

Our widow was instructed to not wait at home and observe the usual grieving practices, she was to leave right away! He felt that he hadn't made amends for his sins at these places personally, and so it was very urgent that his widow was to go post haste.

What could she do but pack her bags and comply? ... and here she was, a newly single woman out seeing the world and not a person could censure her for it. It was her husband's wish. She absolutely could not refuse. In the case that she loved him dearly, forced travel at the time when she would have preferred to be at home surrounded by her loved ones and family, would perhaps have been just awful. In the case that it was an arranged marriage or the husband had not been a kind man, perhaps a trip away might have saved her the effort of pretending to grieve.

False grieving was commented on by clergymen who wrote that some widows force pretend tears at the funeral whilst at the same time looking for a new husband before the old is in the ground or, and this is a double edged sword here, wailing extensively because the husband has died and the widow and children have no source of income and no means to live without him.

Honestly, this is a legitimate concern, but was interpreted by some as being selfish. Thoughts should be firmly directed on the deceased, not on herself, was the feeling.




Medieval ampulla like this one from my collection, which you can see here in The Gilbert Collection, were favourite pilgrimage souvenirs. They contained water blessed from shrines and it was hoped that the water would have protective qualities and cure sickness for those at home who could not travel to the shrines themselves.

Without a doubt, one of the most famous of single medieval women who travelled is our literary Prioress, a creation of 14th century writer, Chaucer. An illumination of her can be seen here.

Her character inspired by a actual historical person, and the description of her lavish personal accoutrements and love of the finer things in life, and we find her in visiting dioces records where the nuns are furiously complaining about
 Eglentyne.

Whilst
Chaucer's Madame Eglantine was a composite figure of some of the best and worst things associated with nuns at this time, our Eglentyne, the third daughter of a well-to-do person, became a nun at the tender age of fifteen and lived a reasonably civil life for ten years or so before being promoted to Prioress. 

And this is where she got unruly.

The nuns under her were very unhappy. She was selling wood to outsiders, selling off the best silver spoons, dressing like a secular women, wearing far too much jewellery and taking so many trips outside their cloistered walls, that it was sending the establishment broke. 


For more information about single medieval women who travelled, there's a chapter in my book, the Secret Lives of Single Medieval Women, out in most countries now or available directly from Mango Publishing in the USA.


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Includes hose, shoes, circlets and brooches, veils, pouches, belts. If I wear it, it's counted.

My advice, guess high! (I don't have the number yet, but I have a LOT of stuff.) World wide. I will contact you directly,
if you are a winner!
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What an exciting day for my new book, the Secret Lives of Single Medieval Women, out now from Mango Publishing!!



Thank you Karen and Michael, my local Stones Corner bookshop for having me as their Author On The Sidewalk today! A big THANK YOU to everyone who stopped for a chat or bought books or both!

Books@Stones supports Australian authors and stocks a bunch of other cool things (the native animal puppets are so cute), games, and funky book related merch.


See you again here for a Book Event Night in the coming months!


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In the Middle Ages, many men had many feelings about things that really were none of their business, like girls laughing. Guibert de Nogent was just one of many who felt young ladies should be ashamed about feeling good about themselves.



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Mothers are a bit special. Whether they planned to be, were surprised with motherhood or fostered a foundling, medieval mothers had a lot in common with us- they shared the same concerns and often faced the same difficulties.


The Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Women is a non-fiction book and was released by Mango Publishing a few years ago but continues to surprise new readers. Available in several languages and in the Braille Lending Library of Australia, you too can peek behind the image presented in Hollywood movies and mainstream medieval history.



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Reviews are coming in for the first few readers of "The Secret Lives of Single Medieval Women" and it's good news!

While the first two understood what I was trying to achieve, the third felt that it was padded out because I, she supposed, had a lack of material. The review was mostly positive, but I really want to emphasise that the background knowledge and clothing information was included on purpose because the target audience of the book may not actually know any of this.

Here is the first review:
 
"A very interesting read that anyone can enjoy even if you are not a diehard medieveal enthusiast. This book is factual but doesn't bog the reader down. Very well written."

Here is the second review:

"I had to absolutely get my copy from Rosalie's book launch. It truly doesn't disappoint. Her idea of trying to find out what the Medieval equivalent of the modern day single cat lady would be like is a great read. As usual, her very easy to read style of writing is just like having a conversation with her in person. This isn't a university paper full of facts and figures you get tired of reading after the first chapter. Although you are still learning as you read from a particularly well researched and analysed text, this is written in a fun informative way that absolutely anyone can pick this up and both have a laugh, and learn at the same time. Rosalie, you've done it again!"

Here's the third review:

"This is an exciting but slightly underwhelming entry into the canon of women in history.

I really loved learning about the women from all walks of life in the Medieval ages. This isn't just about the queens and courtly sort, but women at all ages and levels of society, including beggars and sex workers.

This is a well-referenced and deeply sourced text ... where it could be. Part of the challenge is that women weren't worth noting most of the time. A lot is guesswork based on what was missing and what was known for men. Of course, virtually nothing is known about genderqueer folks. Would I love someone to try a history on that!

I loved learning about how various single women made their way. The nuns at Godstoew Abbey were apparently a raucous bunch, always being formally chastised in writing by the Bishop of Lincoln for staying up all night and having too much fun.

On the downside, there's a lot of stuffing here. There's a whole section on the seasons of the time with no apparent relation to single Medieval women. I just couldn't understand why this material was included. Except that there simply isn't enough to write a book about. Gotta fill in the cracks with background knowledge when all else fails, I guess. I also felt that there were a lot of details about clothing. The author just seemed to be grasping at straws (almost literally) in various places due to lack of material, I gather.

Still a worthy and easy-to-read text.

Thank you to Edelweiss+ and Mango Publishing Group for the advance copy.

I believe there are entire books dedicated to genderqueer folk, and it's such a huge topic that it's very hard to touch on it briefly and move on without addressing it properly. This is true for anchoresses and women involved in the military. The background knowledge is, of course, to medievalists mere background knowledge, but to readers who are just dipping their toe in, this provides that background knowledge.

I am trying to reply to the reviewer, but the site insists I need to be logged in when I already am. Very frustrating.
 


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I made a museum treasure hunt for my book release event!

A few weeks ago I had my official book launch for The Secret Lives of Single Medieval Women at the Abbey Museum of Art & Archaeology, and we had a short speech, lots of scrumptious food and I made this fun Scavenger Hunt for the Museum and Art Gallery for guests to really have a closer look at the displays!

While not all items are medieval, they are all things associated with the life of a single woman! Writing implements, dress accessories, devotional literature and even the much beloved pet, the small white, fluffy dog! What might a woman do with a monk? Why, confess! (although players had lots of fun suggestions of things to do with monks! naughty! Naughty!)

Here's our item card that I made! Obviously, you can't collect them. It was a find-and-photograph and first one back won a prize!

The hunt itself was extremely successful with players racing around the museum and participants helping each other out with wild waving of arms saying "That way! That way!" and even museum staff dropping clues as to which cases to look in! All in all, much merriment was had, with people reporting that it was a lot more fun than they thought it would be.

The absolute funny part is that one of the items, the buckle and chape, was in a case which was out of display due to some water damage from a recent storm, and since people couldn’t see the exact item I had in mind, they were frantically looking for anything which might have been it. Answers included spotting a buckle on a suit or armour, in a painting, and on the clothes they were wearing themselves!


At the conclusion, there were two back at the same time with everything ticked off, so I decided that a runner up prize was in order and everyone left happy!



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Book launch photos from "The Secret Lives of Single Medieval Women" on Saturday at the Abbey Museum of Art and Archaeology in the new cafe are now up on social media but here's my favourite one: the obligatory Author At The Book Table snap!

It was an absolutely wonderful event and it was a great opportunity for me to gather family, friends, colleagues and enthusiastic supporters all together for a celebration. Guests enjoyed the delicious catering the Abbey Museum events are well-known for, a short but lively talk about the making of the book and a guided tour of the new Art Gallery by Senior Curator Michael Strong. For the more adventurous, we had a Single Lady Scavenger Hunt within the museum and art gallery itself to find and photograph a number of historical lady items which a single woman might have used in her life!

A huge thank you to everyone who came and especially for the Abbey staff who made this little event so lovely!

Thank you also to Nate at Mango Publishing for getting a few books my way for our special day!



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I have books!!!!!


 
Before you get too excited, I have only 20 books for the official Book Launch event this Saturday, which may not be enough and certainly doesn't cover the order from the museum shop. Just 20 books.

Pretty darn excited about it, though. The cover looks really great!!


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It's been a busy night last night making new footers and updating things on my author website pages, and just for fun, here are the themed new footers, which I'll use depending on the posts. I'm just posting them here to check the links work and are loading properly.

This one has the new updated cover for Single Medieval Women which is out very soon, but it looks pretty much the same:


This one has all the books on it and is my Author Books one:


and this one is specifically if I'm talking about ordering books and encouraging people to visit the website:



This one just for the Medieval Wisdom book hasn't changed:



and this one for just the Very Secret Sex Lives of Medieval Women book hasn't changed either.


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It's a frustrating fact of life that in order to be a small author and yet gain that Best Seller title, you need to sell a lot of books in a short time on Amazon. As an author, this means urging the population to spend their hard earned cash on one of the platforms that many people don't love and don't want to support, which is fair enough, so I've been looking around at other places which do the same job but are not actually them.

I've discovered Bookshop.org which appears to be absolutely that. They'll be stocking my new book, so apart from encouraging supporting your books-and-mortar local book shops, I'll be suggesting it as a viable option. I believe you can nominate an actual bookshop to receive a token amount from your sale (which seems to be cheaper than elsewhere) as well.

Buying from Mango Publishing directly seems like another good options for Americans, as they are a fellow-American country, but for those outside the States who are a bit iffy about anything from that part of the world, I'll just casually mention that Mango are an inclusive workplace and is an independent book publisher very engaged in social justice and environmental causes. Their authors and staff are diverse, which is very nice.

Sadly supporting Mango, Bookshop.org and your local places won't count toward that Best Seller tag, but I think it's nicer to be a good human, don't you?


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The final cover is released and the book is off to the printer!

I must say I'm extremely pleased with this. The colours are beautiful and autumnal, the single girl and her kitty is sweet, and the back cover text is really wonderful. It accurately reflects the book without over hyping it unnecessarily to generate sales. The review endorsements show that the book is not academic, but a good, interesting read for everyday readers who want to learn more about medieval life and some of the myths associated with medieval women.



I easily could have written forever and there are sections trimmed for word count, but there's an online colour image gallery and online source notes for those of us, like myself, who really do want to know where this information comes from to keep the printing costs and therefore the book price affordable.

Currently, it's available for preorder from many places including Amazon, and for those who wish to skip them entirely, will also be live on the Mango Publishing Online Bookstore very soon also.

If you'd like to read a little more about what the book is actually about, visit my author website here.

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I'm not just a writer, I'm also a book collector, and the ones I love most of all are the very old ones which are terribly specific. Titles which could stop but go that extra mile like this nice title which seems quite alright at first: "The Joy of Being A Woman" before it ominously adds "...and what a man can do!" because clearly, he needs to do something about a woman being joyous in the 1970's.

I'm passing the time updating my Weirdly Specific Vintage Books Library (which includes non vintage books in the medieval section) while waiting for cyclone Alfred to land, but if you're after some light reading about the Nuclear Mentality for Women (hide under a table to protect your ovaries) or something more gritty like... Just Friends? A Practical Guide to Boy-Girl Friendships which is absolutely A Reliable Booklet for Young Men and Women by the Father and Son Welfare Movement of Australia, Aust. 1955 (spoiler: the answer is No, you can't be Just Friends) you can see them and much more.

Social Purity was of great to concern to Kellogg, he of the breakfast cereal fame, and in Social Purity and the Purity Pledge, his wife has a strong word to young ladies while Dr Kellogg tackles the men, but not literally.


The very erstwhile Norbert Glas weighs in with his very important and slightly fabulous work, Adolescence and Diseases of Puberty.


This is the type of thing I love. The religious section may offend some as I've headed it God Botherers, but some of the authors really have it in for him. Some are just very specific to such a small group of people, one wonders who exactly was the target audience? Which three people, exactly?

It's not everything I have by a long shot, as I have hundreds upon hundreds, but these in the online library and some of my favourites!

Check it out!

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Your thought for the week from my Medieval Wisdom series.

Beware of flatterers. They mean to talk you up, but in reality, they don't care about you and just want to get what they can from you.

Not much has changed from the medieval world to our modern one.


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With the lovely Edith Cuffe OAM at the Abbey Museum of Art and Archaeology Friends Presentation this afternoon and what a turnout we had! We ran out of chairs and needed to add more at the back as people just kept arriving! There we are with another ten minutes to go and running out of chairs fast!

Following the talk, we had a delightfully refreshing cup of tea and some delicious home-baked goodies while I was plied with questions!

I think we all went home with new facts to surprise unsuspecting people at parties with!
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It's tomorrow! There's a slideshow of great pictures too! Here's what the museum promo says:


This is your friendly reminder to get your tickets to Rosalie Gilbert's upcoming talk, Single Medieval Women: Who Were They and What Did They Do?

📍 The Abbey Hall
📅 Saturday, 22 Feb
🕑 2pm - 4pm


Join Rosalie for an in-depth dive into the day-to-day lives of single women in Medieval times. Whether they were unmarried, widowed, divorced, or had taken up a life within the church, learn and explore the different freedoms (or restrictions) women of the Middle Ages lived with. What roles did they hold in society?

Limited tickets remaining - gets yours now so you don't miss out!

TICKETS: Friends Member $10 | Guest $20

https://abbeymuseum.com.au/.../friends-presentation.../
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Looking over the interior style proof of "The Secret Lives of Single Medieval Women" which is already available for pre-order!

At this stage, the release date 25 March is only 5 weeks away!
 
You can pre-order HERE.

Like to learn more? Visit my official author website book page here.


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